Friday, March 20, 2015

Billi Pod Will Leave The Big Apple - Lori & Scott @ FacebookNY - John & Jen.



Friday==>Well, my loyal and faithful readers and followers, take a deep breath and read on as your favorite Big Apple blogger shares some very important personal information.

For those of you new to this blog ... please take a minute and read the posting on March 3rd titled “Some Deeply Personal Thoughts.” The link is:


OK ... here it comes ... ready or not ...

On Monday, March 16th, while in Orlando with my son Bill III, I made the following decisions:

1. It is indeed time for me to leave NYC; and,

2. I will relocate in Winter Park.

My 7 nights in Winter Park and then the 4 nights in Orlando made me very comfortable with this decision.

I want to initially live in one of two apartment complex’s in Winter Park Village, either:

The Loft’s of Winter Park Village


or,

Paseo at Winter Park Village (which is still under construction but is supposed to be completely finished in April)


Now, take a minute and check out the above websites.

I have, of course, discussed this in depth with Bill and he concurs. He has also visited the two facilities with me and likes both of them.

So ... the anticipated schedule will be:

I will move out of PHC during the last week in May, depending on my mover’s availability (not looking forward to finding one). I will spend the final night in NYC in a hotel and then fly down to Orlando.

At the moment the further plans are to stay temporarily with Bill and store my furniture, etc. in his garage area until the final details for either The Lofts or Paseo are worked out. There is a distinct possibility that something will be available in one, if not both, of the properties in May so I could also just move directly in. Hopefully, that will happen.

So, my loyal and faithful readers and followers, there you have it. 

Please understand==>I am not abandoning NYC because I will return periodically, trust me ... this will happen.

I want to thank my family and friends for your thoughts and comments given to me in advance of the final decision. They were all extremely helpful.

Bottom line==>I am leaving NYC on my terms and not in a wheelchair, on a walker, or in a coffin.

I think it is very ironic that on the day I am posting about this decision it is the first day of Spring and @ 12:30pm it is fucking snowing here in The Big Apple, The Greatest City In The World. Yep ... snowing on the first day of Spring. I rest my case!

OK ... do some deep breathing, calm down, relax and ... 

Let’s move on to ...

I am happy to report that yesterday’s entertainment event at FacebookNY ...

FBNY Speaker Series welcomes Lori Levine, founder of Flying Television, a Celebrity global activation firm offering a wide spectrum of services including Public Relations, Talent Relations, Advertising, Branding, Experiential Marketing, Digital Activation will participate in a fireside chat with Facebook’s Scott Reed, former Flying Television Director of Operations.” 

was a totally enjoyable, informative and educational evening. Lori was very open about her personal history and her management philosophy.

I was particularly impressed with the obvious respect Scott and Lori have for each other and their commitment to “doing the job right.”

It was about 8:00pm when the program was over. I came back to the warm and cozy confines of PHC and settled in to watch the Yankees Spring Training game. The Yankees lost.

Now ... moving on to today ...

My entertainment event for tonight is an Off Broadway musical in my immediate Hell’s Kitchen ‘hood ...

8:00==>JOHN & JEN - “This chamber musical looks at the complexities of relationships between brothers and sisters and parents and children. Set against the background of a changing America between 1950 and 1990, it tells the story of Jen and her relationships with the two Johns in her life: her younger brother, and his namesake, her son.” (Off Broadway - discounted TDF ticket)

This two-person show had its first preview back on February 10th. It stars Kate Baldwin and Conor Ryan and has received very favorable reviews.

The show is playing at The Theatre Row Complex on my West 42nd Street block, meaning I will have minimal exposure to the elements. It has a running time of 2:00, including intermission, and runs through April 4th.

So, my loyal and faithful readers and followers ... you are now up-to-date.

Take some more deep breaths and then ... 

HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND EVERYONE!!

Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>4.20 miles (or, 9,190 steps)

Total mileage for 2015==>322.52 miles (average 4.14 miles per day)

Billi Pod
“Don’t pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight, he’ll just kill you.”

Thursday, March 19, 2015

Winter Park Update - It Shoulda Been You - FacebookNY Speaker Series - Breaking News Alert



Thursday - March 19==>Yes, my loyal and faithful readers and followers, your favorite Big Apple blogger is back in Manhattan and settled in after a wonderful time down in Winter Park and then Orlando, with Bill III.

As reported before I left the city on March 6th, I didn’t post on this blog but did make timely posts on my Facebook Timeline ... so ... for the benefit of those of my loyal and faithful readers and followers who are not on Facebook, and to bring this blog up-to-date ... here are the summaries in chronological order, basically unedited ...
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Friday, March 6 - Day One==>It is 7:15pm and I am settled into my cottage in downtown Winter Park. The weather is kinda iffy but much warmer than you know where. Flight down sucked. Was almost 2 hours late. Oh well ... Bill III picked me up, took me to a Publix and then helped me get unpacked. The "adventure" has begun. Stay tuned.

Saturday - Day Two==>Mix of sun and clouds. High 76º. Going to be a major, and I mean MAJOR walk and wander day. Tonight seeing ELEPHANT MAN, with my Lakeland friend Larry Stallings in the cast, assuming I can figure out how to get to the Baggy Pants theater. I feel very comfortable in my cottage and in the general 'hood. Stay tuned.

Sunday - Day Three==>Yesterday was indeed a MAJOR walking and wandering day==>6.71 miles. Saw interesting apartments at The Lofts @ Winter Park Village and the new Paseo. Found my way to THE ELEPHANT MAN play via Uber. It was excellent. It was great seeing my friend Larry Stallings and his wife. Today’s weather is AWESOME so more walking and wandering. St. Pat’s Parade at 2:00pm. Stay tuned.

Monday - Day Four==>Yesterday was another AWESOME walk and wander day, 7.54 miles. Lotta stuff happening in downtown Winter Park, including St. Pat’s Day parade. 
Today’s high will be 82º. Meeting Vivian Garfein, J. Hall’s longtime companion, for early lunch. Tonight, having dinner with my fraternity brother, attorney Stumpy Harris. Stay tuned.
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>7.54 miles (16,492 steps).
Total mileage for the week==>29.76 (average 4.07 miles per day)
Total mileage for 2015==>272.89 miles (average 4.07 miles per day)

Tuesday - Day Five==>Monday was another walk and wander day that began with meeting up with Vivian Garfein, J. Hall’s longtime companion. Vivian gave me a highly informative tour/visit to the Winter Park Garden apartment complex. Then, for the evening had a great dinner with my fraternity brother, attorney Stumpy Harris and his wife Ruthie at Prato on Park Avenue.
Today the forecast is for a high of 87º. This afternoon will be more walking and wandering and tonight @ 8:00pm will be an AA meeting. Stay tuned.
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>5.72 miles (12,518 steps).)
Total mileage for 2015==>278.61 miles (average 4.10 miles per day)

Wednesday - Day Six==>Yesterday was another great walk and wander day==>5.86 miles. Discovered there is a Trader Joe's and a Shake Shack in my immediate ‘hood. How ‘bout dat NYC? As planned, for the evening I attended an 8:00pm AA meeting.
Today will be more exploring, including the Scenic Boat Tour of the city’s lakes and canals. For the evening will be a movie, probably THE IMITATION GAMES at the huge cinema at Winter Park Village. Stay tuned.
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>5.86 miles (12,806 steps)
Total mileage for 2015==>284.47 miles (average 4.12 miles per day)

Thursday - Day Seven==>Well, no Scenic Boat Tour or THE IMITATION GAMES yesterday ... nope ... instead it was Spring Training baseball and walking and wandering==>5.21 miles. Still another great day in WP.
Today will be AWESOME. At 8:30am having breakfast with Lance Smith, the owner of the mega-successful Cutting Edge Carpets, then, maybe, the Scenic Boat Tour. For the evening will Uber over to Orlando to Boone High School for the 7:00pm opening night performance of the musical EVITA, directed by my NYC friend David Lee. Stay tuned.
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>5.21 miles (or, 11,391 steps)
Total mileage for 2015==>289.68 miles (average 4.14 miles per day)

Friday - Day Eight==>Thursday was a totally exceptional day that started with a great breakfast with Lance Smith, who also gave me a very informative tour of Winter Park and downtown Orlando. The afternoon was walking and wandering and Spring Training baseball. The evening was a terrific production of EVITA at Boone High School in Orlando, directed by David Lee. I Ubered to and from the show without any problems.
Today is going to be a “winding down” day with some more walking and wandering and then dinner at 7:00pm with Bill III and our friend Randy Haag, at an Outback. Stay Tuned.
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>4.56 miles (or, 9,959 steps)
Total mileage for 2015==>294.24 miles (average 4.14 miles per day)

Saturday - Day Nine==>Well, the Winter Park part of the “adventure” is now over. Checked out of the cottage last night and then had a wonderful dinner at an Outback with Bill III and our friend Randy Haag. The food and fellowship was super excellent. The time in Winter Park met ALL of my expectations, and then some.
I am now in Orlando with Bill, who will spend the afternoon golfing with friends. When he gets back we will start some serious discussions about ... well ... you know about what. Will be with him until Tuesday morning, when I head back to The Big Apple. Stay tuned!! 
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>4.30 miles (or, 9,415 steps)
Total mileage for 2015==>298.54 miles (average 4.15 miles per day)

Sunday - Day Ten==>Saturday was pretty much an “unwind and relax day” although I did record 5.40 miles of walking and wandering in Bill’s Orlando ‘hood. For the evening we had pizza and watched FOXCATCHER, starring Steve Carell and Channing Tatum.
Today is also going to be pretty much a laid-back day with lots of Spring Training baseball. Tonight Bill will grill us some steaks and that is always AWESOME.
And, yes, I am still mentally processing lots and lots of stuff ... so ... Stay Tuned!!
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>5.40 miles (or, 11,811 steps)
Total mileage for 2015==>303.94 miles (average 4.16 miles per day)

Monday - Day Eleven==>Sunday was another relaxing day, with decent walking mileage==>4.39 miles. Bill and I had a serious discussion about ... well ... you know about what ... and then he grilled a couple of AWESOME steaks. The selfie is at a lake in Bill’s ‘hood.
This morning we are going back to two of the rental properties in Winter Park Village. Then in the afternoon we will go to the Bay Hill Golf Course for a Golf Clinic hosted by Bubba Watson. For the evening it will be BBQ. Stay Tuned. Oh ... some pretty AWESOME walking stats for the week.
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>4.39 miles (or, 9,603 steps)
Total mileage for the week==>35.44 miles (average 5.06 miles per day)
Total mileage for 2015==>308.33 miles (average 4.17 miles per day)

Tuesday - Day Twelve==>Heading back to The Big Apple, ending my wonderful Winter Park adventure. My flight leaves Orlando at 12:55pm, arrives LGA @ 3:30pm, hopefully. Will stay in for the evening.
Yesterday was another AWESOME day in The Sunshine State, highlighted by seeing golf pro Bubba Watson give a Golf Clinic at the beautiful Bay Hill Golf Course, site of the upcoming Arnold Palmer Invitational Tournament. My final dinner was great BBQ, and deep conversations with Bill III, at Sonny’s. Stay Tuned.
Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>4.36 miles (or, 9,535 steps)
Total mileage for 2015==>312.69 miles (average 4.17 miles per day)
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On Tuesday it was 5:20pm when I opened the door to PHC. The flight had gone very well. On the way back to the apartment I picked up some pizza, so I stayed in for the evening and just basically mentally re-connected with The Big Apple.

In review ... the trip to Winter Park and then Orlando more than met my expectations. WP is a happening place, especially the Winter Park Village area and Park Avenue downtown. For your education here are a couple of websites ...

Winter Park Village


The Lofts of Winter Park Village


Paseo at Winter Park Village


Moving on ...

Yesterday I posted about my 25th AA Birthday. I really appreciate the responsive texts, emails and postings. 

I met up with some of my AA buddies (you know who you are) and we attended the 12:30pm Beginner’s Meeting at the Citicorp Building over on the Eastside. This has been a tradition for me on my AA birthdays. My usual meeting is a weekly Speaker's Meeting.

For the evening I treated myself to a Broadway musical, in previews ...

IT SHOULDA BEEN YOU - “When a bride and groom from wildly different backgrounds come together to celebrate a wedding, an unexpected arrival turns the special day into hysterical chaos. Plots are hatched and secrets are exposed – as the bride’s resourceful sister is left to turn an unmitigated disaster into happily ever after.” (Broadway - Discounted TDF ticket)

The “unexpected arrival” is the bride’s former boyfriend, Marty, played by my Facebook friend Josh Grisetti. He does a great job.

The cast is stellar, headed by Tyne Daly and Harriet Harris, and directed by David Hyde Pierce.

The music is catchy and the staging is excellent.

My only quibble is the running time. It is listed as 1:30, without intermission, but last night it was 1:50 and that is way too long. It needs to be trimmed.

So ... Billi Pod’s report card==>B.

It is playing at the Brooks Atkinson Theatre on West 47th Street, opens on April 14th and is an open run.

Moving on ...

Today’s entertainment event is going to be something very different ... a event at FacebookNY downtown ...

5:30pm==>”FBNY Speaker Series welcomes Lori Levine, founder of Flying Television, a Celebrity global activation firm offering a wide spectrum of services including Public Relations, Talent Relations, Advertising, Branding, Experiential Marketing, Digital Activation will participate in a fireside chat with Facebook’s Scott Reed, former Flying Television Director of Operations.” 

“Join us for an interactive discussion with Lori, peeking behind the curtain into how the business of Hollywood actually works. How a female-founded business is born in (what was) a man’s world 15 years ago, and how determination, necessity, and sheer force of will, can lead to redefining true success.” 

“Stick around for more conversation + beer, wine & food provided by Desimone's at FacebookNY afterwards.”

Yeah ... something very different for your favorite blogger. Looking forward to it.

Moving on and ... we are close to bringing this way-too-long posting to an end ... so ... just a bit more ...

Weather update from The Big Apple==>At 8:30am it was bright and cold ... 29º, wind chill down to 20º.

And ... dammit ... snow is in the forecast for tomorrow.

On this happy note will close this out with a breaking news alert==>something very very important will be revealed in tomorrow’s posting ... so ... stay tuned.

STAY WARM EVERYONE IN THE TRI-STATE AREA!!

Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>3.57 miles (or, 7,821 steps)

Total mileage for 2015==>318.75 miles (average 4.13 miles per day)

Billi Pod
“Don’t pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight, he’ll just kill you.”

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

March 18, 2015==>25 YEARS OF SOBRIETY!!


Hi: My name is Bill and I am an alcoholic.

Today, March 18, 2015, is a very important day for me because it is the anniversary of my 25th year of continuous sobriety. Yes, it is a mind-boggling 25 years without a drop of alcohol entering my body. As I reflect on the events of the past 25 years it is apparent to me that much has changed in me, hopefully, almost all of it for the better.

I believe the most important change has been my ability to live my life by one of the fundamental teachings of Alcoholics Anonymous, that is, "One Day At A Time."

This concept was totally foreign to me prior to March 18, 1990. Now, on reflection, it was the major thing that saved me during that first tumultuous and frightening year when it seemed that my world was crashing down around me. People who I thought were my friends were calling for my resignation, my young grandsons were being approached by aggressive reporters and my home in Bartow, FL, was being picketed by the Ku Klux Klan.

I think I survived, especially during that first terrible year, because I came to believe that my Higher Power, whom I choose to call God, would not deal me more than I could handle in any one day.

After completing a 28-day residential inpatient recovery program at Hanley/Hazelden Center in West Palm Beach, FL, I began to make my way through the Alcoholics Anonymous program by regularly attending meetings and by working the suggested 12 Steps Of Recovery, which are:

1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable.

2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we understood Him.

4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all of our affairs.

As I have written before, at my retirement party in Bartow, in January 1995, I made reference to the role of Alcoholics Anonymous in my recovery by reading the following from the book called "Twenty-Four Hours A Day" ...
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YESTERDAY, TOMORROW, AND TODAY

“There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept from fear and apprehension. One of these days is yesterday, with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday. We cannot undo a single act we performed. We cannot erase a single word we said. Yesterday is gone beyond recall."

"The other day we should not worry about is tomorrow, with its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise, and perhaps its poor performance. Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control. Tomorrow's sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is as yet unborn."

"This leaves only one day - today. Any one can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you and I add the burden of those two awful eternity's, yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives us mad. It is the remorse or bitterness for something which happened yesterday or the dread of what tomorrow may bring. Let us therefore do our best to live but one day at a time.” "Twenty-Four Hours a Day, July 29, 30, and 31."
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Yes, this is how I have attempted to live my life for the past 9,125 days.

I deeply regret that 9 dear friends: David Patterson; Ray Coker; Marvin Mounts; Tom Macdonald; Randy Bentley; Gilbert Goshorn; Jack Davis; Bud Coker; and, Dexter Douglass, who were each with me at the beginning of my first steps toward recovery, are no longer able to share with me the wonderment of these 9,125 days lived One Day At A Time. I miss you guys, I really do.

I also must add that none of this time in recovery would have been possible without: the dedicated staff at Hanley/Hazelden Center in West Palm Beach, FL; the continued support of my family; Ginger Flowers of Atlanta, GA; Danny Keith; and, so many of you loyal and faithful readers and followers. Thank you all so very much.

To my NYC AA buddies, and you know who you are, thank you for allowing me to stand beside you during these difficult and trying times. Together we will continue to survive, in sobriety. Seeya today at the 12:30pm Beginners Meeting, as usual.

In closing - not to preach - but aren’t The 12 Steps and One Day At A Time, in and of themselves, pretty good guidelines for living a meaningful and manageable life?

I report - you decide.

Bill

PS: My loyal and faithful readers and followers==>please feel free to pass this on to anyone of your choosing.

Thursday, March 5, 2015

More Snow - Upcoming Plans - A-Rod - Seeya Later


Thursday==>How fitting that I begin the last posting before my departure in the morning for my 11-day trip down to The Sunshine State with a report that at 9:30am here in The Big Apple, The Greatest City In The World, it is ... tada ... SNOWING!!

Yep ... and snow is forecast for the rest of the morning and into the afternoon. Thankfully things will have cleared up by the time for my flight tomorrow.

Now ... how’s this for a comparison ... the projected high’s and low’s for today are:

New York - snow - high 34º - low 11º 
Orlando - sunny -  high 87º - low 65º

Wouldn’t you know it ... this “was” my scheduled entertainment event for today ...

1:00pm==>lunch with Dian Crystal aka My Lady and Marty Kosarik aka Whatever at our favorite Ethiopian restaurant, Meske, located on West 47th Street in my Hell’s Kitchen ‘hood.

We are having this lunch because, according to Marty: “We have some things we’d like you to know/have in your head to think about before you go to FL, that we think could be important to your decision making process.”

I said “was” ... because your favorite blogger just made a unilateral decision and canceled lunch because he simply didn’t want to brave the snow/sleet/rain and the dangerous sidewalks and crosswalks.

So ... let’s move on ...

As I have previously posted, tomorrow morning I head down to Orlando and then to my rented cottage in downtown Winter Park, where my “adventure” will begin.

I will be in the cottage until Saturday morning, March 14th. When I check out I will spend the next several days with my son Bill III in Orlando and then head back to The Big Apple on Tuesday, March 17th.

I am really charged about this “adventure,” which is longest time I will be away from The Big Apple since my 21-day Japan/China tour back in May 2008.

My last extended trip out of The City was my 8-day trip to Paris to be with my college roomie David West back in November 2010.

I don’t anticipate posting on this blog during my “adventure” but will, hopefully, make timely reports and updates on my Facebook Timeline ... 


Tonight I will stay in the warm and cozy confines of my apartment, just like I did last night.

Moving on ... 

Yesterday A-Rod started his first game since 2013 and it, of course, generated a media firestorm when he hit a single in his first at-bat.

Here are the headlines in today’s papers ...  

A-ROD SINGLES* - *Would have been a homer on the juice - First hit in 2 years.
front page of The NY Post

CHEERS FOR THE CHEAT. For openers, fans A-pprove of A-Rod.
back page of The NY Post

MR. MARCH. A-Rod delivers in a hurry, ends 17-month hiatus with single in first at-bat.
back page of The Daily News

And, in The Gray Lady ...

In First Game Back, Some Jitters and a Single.
front page of the sports section of The New York Times

Oh the drama.

So ... my loyal and faithful readers and followers ... let the "adventure" begin ... 

TALK WITH YOU LATER.

Yesterday’s Pedometer mileage==>3.31  miles (or, 7,243 steps)

Total mileage for 2015==>254.09 miles (average 4.03 miles per day)

Billi Pod
“Don’t pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight, he’ll just kill you.”